Six R of relationships every couple must know
Six R of healthy relationships: Couple goals
Healthy relationships go long way and they fulfil the best couple goals ever. Know the 6 ‘R’s of relationships in couple.
Six R of relationships:
1.Respect: Respect is the foremost necessity when we talk about relationships. Respect your partner. Respect your spouse’s choice, dreams, dressing style, hard work and everything that is well deserving. Never try to speak anything as if you were joking. Because if you are fond of repeating that joke again and again, it no longer remains a joke. It starts to take the form of insult and your partner may feel hurt. Commenting negatively, for example on his/her weight, especially in front of guests or friends, telling that he/she could eat your whole meal in one go, or having an elephant belly, etc. These are not crack able jokes, in fact these are body shaming insults that can hurt the sentiments deeply. Women are more down looked upon when the matter of working outside or profession comes; it is the duty of the husband to respect the profession of her wife and always encourage to step ahead in her endeavours.
2.Right to be informed: When you are a couple, a husband and a wife, you need to understand that both have the right to know about each other. Anything hidden or secret-keeping can actually create troubles in your relation. May it be a simple matter of going out at some shoot-out with friends, you need to keep each other informed. Talk about your failures. Talk about your success. Share every news that is concerned to your relationship. This really helps in avoiding any chaotic situation thereafter.
3.Romance: Romance is the essence of healthy relationships. It fulfils the couple goals. Try to be a romantic partner, even if you are not! Being romantic draws you closer to your partner and you enjoy the life even more. Spend quality time together and again respect the priorities, choices and situations while trying to become romantic. Making love is what brings you closer and builds a great sense of trust in your relationship. It helps in reducing stress and improving your mental health.
4.Resolution: Each relation has some flaws. No one is perfect and being human is not so easy. We make mistakes, learn from mistakes and again do another/ new mistakes. It is the human nature. A husband and wife need to understand each other’s flaws and try to resolve them if possible. Adapting to the relationship is one of the crucial step in leading a strong base towards your relation. It helps you understand each other’s need and you adjust accordingly. Now this is what we call partnership. Partners need to perform together under any circumstances no matter what. It is like the partnership in balling and leading the team towards the target in the cricket match. Life is also like a cricket match. There are many bowls or situations that you both would have to face together and manage to make boundaries and sixes out of them to win the game. Strong partnership goes a long way. Share responsibilities of house by understanding each other.
5.Recreate & Recall: Food without salt and life without entertainment is tasteless.You need some chilling out, some recreation in your life. Have some fun. It is not necessary to live a boring monotonous life all the year around. It needs to be of some fun that both can cherish. Spend some time on a trip together, go on beaches, and go to hill stations. Grab a week’s leave and spend the “we-two-only” moments. Have a blast and make those moments get captured into your camera. This aids in relaxing and ease you out from any stress. It can bring you closer and make your bond stronger than before.
Recalling the spent memories at times helps you get a chance to mantle your shaken relationship. You got those beautiful memories. Try to recall the romantic moments you spend together:
6.Reward: Reward is the thing that usually comes in form of presents or surprises or gifts. A bouquet of beautiful flowers when you just got promoted, when you wife gives you that, it becomes a lovely moment. Search for those moments in life and don’t miss any opportunity wherein you can make you partner feel special. You need not undertake expensive arrangements or bring her fancy gifts. What matters is the feel with which you bring each other a special moment in life. Women especially are surprise lovers, or let me say gift-lovers, not all though! Learn what makes your wife happier! Let these surprises land you into a memorable world. Praise each other for efforts made, hard work done and try to motivate each other.
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